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The Book for Helping Teens and Tweens Cope with Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria

Skills for Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria is a research-informed, practical comic workbook designed to help tweens and teens understand and manage intense emotional reactions to rejection, criticism, and social stress.​ This emotional regulation workbook and graphic novel translates neuroscience into developmentally appropriate language and teaches concrete coping skills that support nervous system regulation, cognitive skills, and self-compassion.​

Does any of this sound familiar?

... You support a tween or teen who falls apart after small criticisms or social misunderstandings.​​​

... You see how deeply rejection affects them, but you're unsure how to help in the moment.​​​

... You're looking for a clear, structured way to build resilience without dismissing their very real pain.

... You want practical tools to teach emotional regulation, not just reassurance.​ ​​

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  • The kids you support could recognize when their rejection alarm was going off and use simple, effective strategies to regulate?

  • You had common language and a structured regulation roadmap to follow, so you no longer felt unprepared to support kids navigating emotional spirals?

  • The kids you support understood their brains and stopped believing something was wrong with them or that they're “too sensitive?

How would you feel if...

This Workbook Walks Kids Step by Step Through...

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Understanding The Brain’s Rejection Alarm

  • How the rejection alarm works

  • Why rejection feels so intense

  • How an ancient survival system shows up in modern social situations

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Cognitive

Strategies

  • Thoughts versus facts

  • Stepping back from unhelpful thinking

  • Flipping negative thoughts

  • Thought Distancing

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Recognizing Triggers and Patterns

  • Identifying rejection triggers

  • Noticing body signals

  • Understanding thoughts, feelings, and reactions

  • Responding instead of reacting

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Building Self-Compassion

  • Creating an inner encourager

  • Practicing self-compassion

  • Identifying supports

  • Replacing harsh self-talk

  • Strengthening resilience skills

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Nervous System Regulation Skills

  • 7 Breathing techniques including reset breath and foghorn breath

  • 14 Coping skills including grounding strategies

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Repairing

& Reflecting

  • What to do after the alarm goes off

  • Repairing relationships 

  • Learning from emotional moments

How Skills for Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria is Different From Other Books:

Grounded in research on RSD, social pain, ADHD, and nervous system regulation for tweens and teens
Visual comic-style storytelling helps kids understand complex neuroscience concepts without feeling overwhelmed
Structured, step-by-step workbook that teaches practical nervous system regulation and cognitive tools

This workbook is for:

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  • Tweens and teens who experience intense emotional reactions to rejection or criticism

  • Neurodivergent youth with ADHD

  • Highly sensitive adolescents

  • Therapists and mental health professionals

  • School counselors, psychologists, social workers, and educators supporting emotional regulation

It can be integrated into therapy sessions, counseling groups, or used independently at home.

See What People Are Saying:

"This book is an absolute game-changer—uplifting, empowering, and packed with compassionate insight.  It will undoubtedly help anyone who experiences Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria, as well as sensitive persons everywhere.  This new and immediate classic offers validation, practical tools, and will help any reader build confidence to truly thrive."

– Christine Babinec, MA, LPC, NCC, Author of

Want a Hug? Consent and Boundaries for Kids

Have we met yet?

I’m Casey, the author of Skills for Big Feelings and Skills for Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria. I’m also a Mom, a licensed School Social Worker/School Adjustment Counselor, a Licensed Mental Health Counselor, a Registered Expressive Arts Therapist, and a Registered Nurse. I'm passionate about teaching kids about teach-

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ing kids social-emotional skills and helping them understand how their brains and bodies work. Over the years, I've worked with many kids who struggle with intense reactions to rejection, criticism, and social stress. I've seen bright, empathetic, capable kids completely unravel after small moments of perceived disapproval. I've watched them internalize shame, withdraw from peers, or become overwhelmed by emotions they did not understand. I've also seen how transformative it can be when they learn what is actually happening in their nervous systems.  When kids understand and have the language about their “rejection alarm” and when they are taught concrete tools to calm their bodies and shift their thinking, their shame decreases, their confidence grows, and their relationships improve.  My passion for this work comes directly from witnessing how deeply rejection sensitivity affects youth and how much relief they feel when they finally have tools that make sense.  Skills for Rejection Sensitive Dysphoria was created to give kids and the adults who support them a structured, compassionate roadmap for building resilience without dismissing their very real emotional experience.

"Martin's new book thoughtfully supports tweens and teens in understanding and managing RSD. The comics bring the ideas to life in ways that engage kids, while the practical strategies give them clear, actionable tools they can use. This workbook will be invaluable for children and teens struggling with RSD. This is a must-have resource for mental health professionals working with this population."

– Liana Lowenstein, MSW, RSW, CPT-S,

Author of The Game Therapy Toolbox

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Help tweens and teens build the emotional skills they need to navigate rejection, criticism, and social stress with greater confidence.

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Color and Black and White Printable Version

Is This Workbook Right For You?

This is for you if:

You support a tween or teen who

has intense emotional reactions

to rejection or criticism

You're a tween or teen who

struggles with rejection sensitivity

 

You want structured, research-informed tools grounded in neuroscience

You value compassionate, shame-reducing language that validates emotional intensity

This is not for you if:

You don't like comics or graphic novels

You believe kids just need to “toughen up”

You want an unstructured journal with minimal guidance


You're looking for a workbook for very young children


You want a quick fix or magic wand 

Frequently Asked Questions

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