Teach conflict resolution, communication, and social problem-solving skills with this I-Statements and I-Messages game for grades 1–5. Children use a simple social script to express feelings and needs, respond to everyday disagreements, and practice assertive communication.

The apple-themed digital game includes two differentiated Google Slides versions with 54 scenarios each, plus 42 printable problem-solving task cards. Practice skills before conflicts happen through individual counseling, small groups, classroom SEL lessons, or telehealth.

📦 What's Included:

• 2 Google Slides games with 54 scenarios each for differentiated social problem-solving practice
• Lower elementary version: Three multiple-choice responses per scenario, including some silly options
• Upper elementary version: Open-response questions for students to create their own I-Statements and solutions
• 42 Printable problem-solving task cards in color and black and white
• I-Statement poster to reinforce the social script
• I-Statement script handouts for guided communication practice
• Feelings poster to support emotional identification

🎒 Quick Details: Grades 1–5 | 👥 Individual, small group + classroom | 💬 2 digital versions, 54 scenarios each | 🃏 42 printable task cards | 🖨️ PDF + Google Slides | 🎯 I-Statements, conflict resolution + social problem solving

🎯 Skills Addressed:

• Using I-Statements and I-Messages to express feelings and needs
• Assertive and respectful communication
• Conflict resolution and social problem solving
• Emotional identification, self-awareness, and social awareness
• Perspective-taking, responsible decision-making, and considering different responses

💡 Ways to Use It:

• Introduce the social script using the I-Statement poster and handouts
• Use multiple-choice responses for structured practice or open-response questions for students to generate solutions
• Role-play everyday disagreements with the printable task cards
• Name feelings with the feelings poster before constructing an I-Statement
• Screen share during telehealth or project the game on an interactive whiteboard
• Revisit the scenarios throughout the school year to reinforce communication skills

👩‍🏫 Who It's For:

School counselors, child therapists, social workers, psychologists, speech-language pathologists, occupational therapists, special education teachers, classroom teachers, and parents supporting students in grades 1–5.

The differentiated versions support students with different language, communication, and learning needs.

📚 More I-Statement Resources:

Read the Whole Child Counseling Guide to Teaching I-Statements for examples, teaching tips, and ways to introduce I-Messages to children.

🖨️ Format & Download:

• PDF with printable task cards, script handouts, and posters
• Google Slides games for computer, interactive whiteboard, or screen sharing
• Color and black-and-white task cards

📌 Important Notes:

• I-Statements are a communication tool, not a requirement. Support spoken, written, visual, or alternative communication methods that work for each child.
• Use for everyday disagreements and manageable social problems. Children should not be expected to resolve bullying, unsafe situations, or serious conflicts independently; adult support is important when safety or power imbalances are involved.
• The goal is assertive communication and self-advocacy, not agreement or compliance.
• This is a digital download. No physical product will be shipped. Due to the digital nature of this resource, all sales are final and refunds are not available.